NINTH SUNDAY AFTER PENTECOST

 

21st July 2002

 

QUOTE OF THE WEEK

The Australian novelist Kathy Lette followed with a few witty thoughts of her own on the Queen's expenditure which the puritans had been moaning about. She thought that if you had a monarchy it should be much more fun. "For example, the Queen spent £24,000 on flowers last year," she said. "Elton John spent £300,000. You can't have a queen outshining the Queen." The royal family, she added, think optimism is an eye disease. "What's the point of inheriting palaces if you can't throw parties?" She wondered what the Queen could be unhappy about, "You're on the postage stamp. You get licked all day. Now, that's what I call job satisfaction. Michael Vestey Spectator 6th July

 

PRAYER OF THE WEEK

I pray you, good Lord Jesus, by the love you had for your young disciple John, to make me thankful for all you have given to me in my close friends. Bless them exceedingly above all that I can ask or think. Help me to be one in heart with them through all separations, and to walk with them in the path of your service. Then finally unite us in the place where love is perfect and immortal, even with yourself, my dear Lord Jesus. Amen. Based on a Prayer by William Bright

 

 

THE BIG SQUEEZE

A barman was very proud of the fact that he could squeeze a lemon so that no more juice would come out of it. He made a standing offer of $1000 to anyone who could get more juice out of a lemon after he had squeezed it. Every night big, burly regulars at the bar attempted to get more juice from a lemon he'd squeezed, but no one could produce so much as a drop. But one night a little bloke walked in and said he had heard of the standing offer and would like to try. The barman said: "How do you think you could succeed when all these big blokes have failed?" And the little guy said: "Just give me a chance and I will show you." So the barman, thinking his regulars would enjoy the joke, picked up a lemon and squeezed it. After squeezing all the juice he could out of it he handed the dried rind to the little fellow and said: "Here you go." The man took the lemon and squeezed it and managed to get one, two, three, four, five, six more drops of juice. Amazed the barman said: "Well, here's your $1000. What do you do for a living? Are you a professional bodybuilder or what? And the little fellow said: "No, I work for the Tax Department."

 

CONGRATULATIONS

Congratulations to Eileen Giles who is now a great, great grandmother. Also to Martin Morse who celebrates his birthday on Mon. the 22nd, and to Fr Bruce Ellis who celebrates his on Fri. the 26th. Congratulations too to Kanda and Peter O'Connell on the birth of baby Ryan & to Wyn, a grandmother again..

 

PEW SHEET ON THE WEB

Extracts from each week's Pew Sheet are now on the Web. To find the Parish Web Site you can use your search engine with the name "Diocese of Wangaratta" and then click on "Parishes" and then on "Wodonga". Permanent parish information is found on this site. The Parish Pew Sheet, Verse, Articles and what not, can be found by clicking from that site on to my own personal web page.

 

The parish site address is:

http://home.netc.net.au/%7Ebishopslodge/Diocese/wodonga.html

 

St John's Choral Festival & Concert,

This great annual Parish event is to be held on Thursday 15th, Friday 16th and Saturday 17th of August. The times are 10.00am lunch time on Thursday, for the Primary School Section, and 10.00am lunch time on Friday for the High School Section

 

The Concert starts at 7.30pm on Saturday, and features the Jazz Band "Zoot Suit", Ursula Genaehr, Theresa Meek and the Scotts College Barber Shop Quartet. Prices for this are $12 ($8 concession) and as usual there is a glass of wine on offer with supper. Excellent value.

 

We will gratefully receive any sponsorship donations as well as offers to help on any or all of the three days.

 

 

 

QUESTIONS ANSWERED

There is a box on the table in the Narthex at St John's into which folk are invited to put questions they would like to ask the clergy. The questions can be anonymous or not and on any topic. Young Willis Neil, aged seven, popped in a couple of curly ones recently and so here they are with Fr Ellis's reply.

 

People believe in all different Gods, Christian God, Buddhist and other Gods. How many gods are there or is there just one? Do they all live up in the sky?

 

There is only one God. Different cultures and religions use their own names for God. Buddhists don't have a name for any god, as they just believe in ideas about happiness and they have rules for living. The sky is really outer space. God lives there, but also lives close to us in our world.

 

How can God listen and watch all of us at the same time?

Nothing is impossible for God. God can do everything. He is over all the universe, but He also wants to be our friend.

 

If God looks like a God what does he look like?

Nobody has ever seen God. But God sent Jesus to the world, to show us what God is like. If we learn more about Jesus, we learn more about what God is like... not so much about what he LOOKS like, but about God's personality. If we learn that Jesus is good, kind, merciful, helpful, truthful and brave, then we can be sure that God his Father is just like that too.

 

Saint John tells us that God is light, and in him is no darkness at all. Michael Ramsey, a former Archbishop of Canterbury, said: God is Christlike, and in him is no un Christ likeness at all. Jesus said: If anyone has seen me, they have seen the Father... God.

 

 

 

FISH AND CHIPS

The Fish and Chip evening takes place this Wednesday, the 24th July in the Narthex at 6.00pm. The cost is $5.00 per person. Ladies please bring a salad. Today is the last chance you have to sign up.

 

REST IN PEACE TWINKLE

Shortly after we arrived in our first parish in Australia, over sixteen years ago, we acquired a stray kitten which we called "Twinkle". She grew up to be an independent and aloof cat, confident in itself and undemonstrative, like a good pommie she did not wear her emotions on her paw. In her later years she developed an interest in religion, making the front garden of the Rectory her own domain and skulking around the Narthex, interested doubtless in her eternal destiny and wondering about all this God business. She also became much more demonstrative and overtly affectionate, something that a relationship with God sometimes unlocks in human beings, Christian fellowship delighted her.

 

As she declined into old age she found that she could no longer negotiate her well worn path up the trunk of an ancient rose bush and over the wall from the back of the Rectory to the front, and so chose as her daytime resting place a hollow in the raspberry patch, near the ground level coloured glass windows of the sanctuary. Her cravings for God and worship were doubtless satisfied, to an extent, by the sound of the sanctuary gong. Last week her staggering gait and extreme thirst and thinness made us realise that life was becoming a great burden to her, so we took her to the vet to be assessed. The verdict was hopeless; shrivelled kidneys, cancer and an imminent and unpleasant end. So she was given a merciful injection and has been buried in the Rectory Garden.

 

 

The Vet's quick assessment and injection cost $89.00. It does make you wonder if there isn't a pecuniary interest in Dr Phillip Nitchske's advocacy of euthanasia for human beings. Surely not, it can only be disinterested altruism!       AN

 

 

 

HA HA BONK!

By Steve Tomkins. From the fascinating Christian Website "Ship of Fools"

Did you hear the one about the two nuns in the bath? Not if you're a good Christian, you didn't - or at least, not without a disappointed tut, sorrowful reflections on the state of the world, and nothing remotely like a snigger. Proper Christians give dirty jokes a wide berth.

But why, exactly? What's wrong with dirty jokes - or rather, what's dirty about sexual jokes? Why do faith, sex and laughter make such an unhappy ménage à trois?

Traditional Christianity has left English without any words for groin related comedy that don't suggest tight lipped disapproval. "Dirty jokes". "Smutty". For people who read big newspapers there are "bawdy", "lewd"' and "ribald", all of which have slunk into the dictionary out of the backdoor of the brothel. Even "blue" comes from the shameful uniform that jailed prostitutes once wore - hardly an image that suggests a happy, healthy chuckle at the absurdities of the horizontal arts. Is it simply because sex and religion don't mix? Hardly. You only have to look in Christian bookshops, conference programmes and bulletin boards to see that the two have an intimate relationship. We are happy to talk about sex, openly and at length. Most of us are happy to do it too - God willing - though whether equally openly and lengthily, I couldn't say.

And it's not as if we have a hangup about comedy in general. Christians are not humourless, and some are very funny indeed, one way or another. Admittedly, you don't get many laughs per page in the Bible, and we have the example of sourpusses like St Benedict who banned all laughter from his monasteries. But most of us are reasonably positive about both laughter and sex, and enjoy a bit of one as much as a bit of the other. So why do the two make such awkward bedfellows? It is, it has to be said, a hard one.

Confusing

What is particularly confusing is that the other big comedy taboo we have is God. We seem to feel that laughter pollutes the sacred and diminishes the divine. "Jesus of Nazareth"' was, if memory serves, more popular among Christians than "The Life of Brian". Whether this taboo is right or wrong, the sex taboo is bizarrely different: surely Christians are not afraid that jokes about bonking will desecrate it and tarnish its glory.

You might assume sex is taboo in jokes for the same reason it's taboo in books and films - but I don't think so. Because in books and films the danger is that we'll get wrongfully aroused. Surely no one ever got turned on by a nob gag. They're about as erotic as porn is funny. (Which information is for me, I hurriedly add, totally second hand, of course, and not just because the other one holds the remote.) Blue movies and blue jokes may both culminate in a release of tension, but in pretty much opposite directions.

So I come, for a third time, to the question why. Why so grumpy about rumpy pumpy? Why no titters about boobs?

My theory

Well, here's my theory (though after all this teasing the final unveiling may be a bit of an anticlimax rather than the contrary). It won't be the best theory you've ever seen, but try not to make comparisons...... Sex jokes treat the whole messy, wriggly business as a bit of fun. As what it is for most contemporary practitioners: entertainment.

Some sex jokes are more entertaining than others, of course. Some are clever, some are lame, some are nasty, some are liberating and some make you wish we were still amoebas. But what they tend to have in common is that they are earthy, they bring sex down to earth. Where once it stood proud and majestic, it is left looking a bit limp and silly.

 

When you're laughing at sex, it's difficult to see it either as a transfiguring ecstasy or a diabolical evil. The churches, on the other hand, whatever position they adopt, take the whole thing so darn seriously. We spent such an insane number of centuries - thanks to the unhappy experiences of St Augustine - believing that horniness was the greatest evil Satan ever manufactured, that we find it impossible now to keep it in perspective.

 

 

"It's a beautiful gift from the Lord," we're told. "It's very special but also very dangerous." "It's the greatest act of love two people can share." "It's God's marital glue." "It's the largest obstacle to overcome on the road to holiness."

 

 

Whatever angle you peep at it from, it's too big a spiritual deal for merriment. And I'm sure there's some truth in most of those attitudes, but there's also a load of hype.

Laugh at it.

The thing is, we're not alone in being hyped. The modern secular West worships and glorifies sex almost as stupidly as we once demonized it. Which I suppose is our fault too in the long run. So surely the best thing the churches can be doing now is bringing sex down to earth somewhere between the two extremes. And in this, sexual humour is on our side. Sex is not the greatest act of love, or sinfulness, possible. Sex is not the greatest joy or fulfilment life has to offer. Sex is not the most important thing in the world. Sex is not the answer to any but a few very simple problems. It's just sex.

It's a bit soggy, a bit smelly, a bit noisy, a bit silly. Sometimes it's a lot of fun, sometimes it's a bit crap. Sometimes it's awesome, sometimes it's horrible. And it is very, very funny.

 

 

We've all of us spent too long inflating the self importance of sex by, one way or another, stroking its ever growing ego. Let's laugh at it, and see if we can make it flop.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

IMPORTANT DATES

July 24th Fish and Chips night

Aug 4th Fete Meeting after 9.30 Eucharist

Aug 11th Confirmation

Aug 15 16 Choral Festival

Aug 17 Jazz Concert with Zoot Suit

Aug 28th Pastoral Care Meeting

Sept 1st Parish BBQ

Sept 6th Parish Dinner

Oct 26th Flower Show and Fete

Nov 27th Pastoral Care Meeting

 

DUTIES up to & including 21st

Cleaning & Tea Team 10

Vestry Dave Gillard

Mowing No one

Narthex Jean De Kruiff

Linen June Bird

Welcome Table Betty Caldow, Sarah Joy Haddad

Door Beryl Anson, Daniel Saunders, Steven Watson

Readers Beryl Anson, Catherine Hayes, Georgia Cadman

Euch. Assistant Mary Nicholson

Intercessor Children

Servers Jayne, Cherie, Caldwell, Ashley, Travis, Howard

 

DUTIES up to & including 28th July

Cleaning & Tea Team 1

Vestry Hugh Elford

Mowing Peter Ohlin

Narthex Stan & Alice Windley

Linen Wendy McGregor

Welcome Table Anne Merbach, Diana Chinnock

Door Marie Draper, Dianne Guthrie, Roslyn Johan

 

Readers Marion Ellis, Dianne Smith, Julie Skilton

Euch. Assistant Di Smith

Intercessor Celebrant

Servers Angela, Miranda, Paige, Ryan, Howard, Liz

 

THIS WEEK IN THE PARISH

Monday 22nd July

Fr Andrew's Day off

7.15am Mattins and Eucharist St John's

5.00pm Evening Prayer St John's

 

Tuesday 23rd July

7.15am Mattins and Eucharist St John's

9.00am Pastoral Care Meeting - Parish Office

10.00am Clergy Hospital Visits

5.00pm Evening Prayer St John's

7.30pm Adult Confirmation Parish Office

 

Wednesday 24th July

7.15am Mattins Emmanuel

10.00am Eucharist St John's

10.00am Eucharist Vermont Court

5.00pm Evening Prayer St John's

6.00pm Fish & Chips (and Youth Group) Narthex

 

Thursday 25th July ST JAMES

7.15am Mattins & Eucharist St John's

9.30am Bishop in Council and more Wangaratta

3.30pm Children for Christ Narthex

5.00pm Evening Prayer St John's

7.30pm Choir Practice - St John's

 

Friday 26th July Joachim & Anne

Fr Ellis' Day off

7.15am Mattins & Trad Rite Eucharist St John's

7.30pm Scottish Country Dancing Narthex

 

Saturday 27th July

7.45am Mattins & Eucharist St John's

5.30pm Evening Prayer St John's

6.00pm Vigil Eucharist St John's

 

28th July Ninth Sunday after Pentecost

7.30am Said Eucharist St John's

9.00am Eucharist Emmanuel

9.30am Sung Eucharist St John's

11.00am Eucharist Bethanga

7.00pm Choral Evensong St John's